In a world that glorifies hustle and busyness, peace often feels like a luxury—something we experience in fleeting moments, not as a constant state of being. But what if I told you that peace is not just a momentary escape, but a foundation upon which everything else in your life can grow?
Why Peace Matters
Peace is not the absence of problems; it’s the presence of clarity, stability, and trust—especially in God’s timing and plan. As someone who has walked through betrayal, homelessness, and trauma, I’ve learned that without inner peace, even the best opportunities can feel like burdens. Peace allows you to hear God more clearly, to move intentionally, and to protect your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
Jesus reminds us in John 14:27 (NIV), “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” This peace surpasses circumstances. It anchors us when everything else feels unstable.
The Cost of Neglecting Your Peace
When we neglect peace, we open the door to burnout, overwhelm, and unnecessary battles. Our minds race with thoughts of “what if,” and we begin to respond to life from a place of fear rather than faith. For many single mothers, visionaries, and leaders, this constant state of unrest hinders growth and keeps us trapped in cycles of survival.
Isaiah 26:3 (NIV) declares, “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” This scripture highlights the connection between trust and peace. When we lose trust in God’s provision or timing, peace is often the first thing to go. I’ve found that the moments I drifted furthest from peace were the moments I compromised my boundaries, ignored God’s voice, and tried to handle things in my own strength. The result? Exhaustion, frustration, and setbacks.
Steps to Prioritize Your Peace
1. Surrender and Release Control
Peace begins with surrender. In the SOAR framework I teach, the first step is to Surrender—letting go of the need to control outcomes and allowing God to guide the process. Trust that He knows the desires of your heart and the timing that aligns with your destiny.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” When we surrender our plans to God, peace follows.
2. Be Obedient to God’s Direction
Obedience often leads to peace. When God nudges you to rest, step back, or let go, trust that His direction is for your good. Even if it doesn’t make sense in the moment, obedience cultivates an environment where peace can thrive.
Isaiah 48:18 (NIV) says, “If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, your well-being like the waves of the sea.” Obedience brings a steady, flowing peace that sustains us.
3. Align with Your Purpose
Misalignment breeds chaos. When your actions, relationships, and commitments align with your God-given purpose, peace naturally follows. If something feels off, it probably is. Take time to reflect and ask God where adjustments need to be made.
Colossians 3:15 (NIV) urges us, “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace.” Allow God’s peace to guide your decisions and direction.
4. Recover and Restore
Peace also comes through recovery and restoration. This might mean creating boundaries, cutting off toxic relationships, or simply allowing yourself to heal without guilt. Restoration is not selfish—it’s necessary.
Psalm 23:2-3 (NIV) beautifully illustrates this: “He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul.” Restoration is part of God’s design for your life.
5. Protect Your Space
Not everyone or everything deserves access to your energy. Guard your space fiercely. Limit interactions that drain you and cultivate environments that pour into your spirit. Remember, your peace is sacred.
Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) advises, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Protecting your peace is essential for sustaining growth and clarity.
Living in Peace Daily
Prioritizing peace is not a one-time decision but a daily practice. When life tries to pull you in different directions, center yourself by remembering this: Peace is your power. It allows you to walk confidently, stand firm in adversity, and thrive even when the storm rages around you.
Philippians 4:7 (NIV) promises, “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” This peace isn’t circumstantial; it’s divine protection.
So today, take a breath. Reclaim your peace. Everything you are building—your family, your dreams, your healing—will flourish when peace becomes the foundation.
Heal. Grow. Thrive.
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